Is It Strange For A Guy to Have Soft Hands?

A lot of guys have soft hands, especially if they have desk jobs and use moisturizer like you use. Toughened hands don't make you a man or soft ones any less than a man. If you want to toughen them up, stop using the moisturizer, exercise them with hand springs, or do odd jobs around the house that require hammers and the like, gardening using shovels, etc., but don't wear gloves. Once you get a blister it will heal into a callous.