R.I.P. Dad erfly Tattoo?

I'm sorry for your loss, its interesting because the day after my mom died, we were filling out her death forms and a erfly landed on my step-dad's hand and it sat there for a minute and flew away. I also have tattoos that commemorate my mom's ping... a star with her initials on my upper back. It symbolizes the "North Star" which people use to find their way when they're lost. I also have a cancer ribbon tattoo because she died from cancer. His initials might be a good idea. Or a nickname he use to go by that his friends/family called him.